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Here’s some blow job tips for women. men love oral sex, it’s to no surprise. The feel of wet sucking is compared to the pleasure of sexual intercourse. The feel is quite similar. In fact, after taking a poll of my many male friends, I have reached the result that many men prefer the feel of oral sex. Why is that better then sex? The following are some tips on how to get your man to think that oral sex is better then sex.

I have to backtrack here a second because is you’re the type of gal that hates giving blow jobs, then you’ll want to follow tips on how to give a worse blow job so that your man will hate them and want to have sex only. Well that’s not very fair is it? A relationship is about compromise, even a bed buddy only relationship is about compromise so if it’s a lopsided affair, then he’ll stray, or at least find another bed buddy. Even if you hate giving oral sex, you’ll have to suck it up and do it eventually sometimes (no pun intended!)

He needs his pleasure, it’s not fair for you to get pleasure but for him to receive nothing. That’s why men cheat. When you hear men say “I do things with my mistress that my wife would never do” Do you know who’s fault that is? It’s the women’s fault. It’s up to them to give their man pleasure and he’ll never have to stray. Think about it this way, if he gives you lots of pleasure, you won’t stray, right? Well again I say that a relationship is a two way street. Now with that said, here is my blow job tips, and after reading the above statement you’ll want o heed this advice:

1.) Go deep
Deep throating is the best thrill of blow jobs. This is a very important tip. This is the reason that men love blow jobs. At the back of the throat, it gets really tight, really fast and it’s very warm, very wet and very soft. All the ingredients men need in the perfect pleasure for their penis. It has it add. Shove his member back there and keep it there as long as you can. The gag reflex will no doubt come into effect, but then all you need to do is heed the second tip and purchase some:

pd956363 2.) Throat Numbing Spray
This is a safe to use numbing spray is exactly what you need to make it more comfortable when you deep throat him. It’s completely safe to use. The main ingredient is benzocaine which is the same thing that’s in Ora-gel and the same thing that dentists use to swab your gum line before putting the needle in for freezing. That’s all the convincing you need. It’s super safe and super effective. You spray it on the very back of your throat and then let it sit for a minute or so before giving oral sex. There are a few things you need to do to make it effective. Don’t let your spit build you back there or it will wash away. Also don’t swallow and don’t give oral sex right away or you will numb his penis and there goes all the pleasure!

3.) Wrap your teeth with your lips.
This is not the most attractive scene but when you wrap your teeth with your lips, it prevents any discomfort and you teeth are the biggest factor is discomfort in giving blow jobs. This gives a stronger feel sort if stroking but without any pain. You’ll look like a denture-less granny so if I may advise that you do this only when you are looking down because it’s not a pretty sight. This brings me to my next point:

4.) Look up at him
It’s what porn stars do so it’s a given that you want to so this too. It gives him a feeling of superiority when you look up at him with lust as you suck on his penis. It makes him feel tall stroking and like a man and well, what man doesn’t love that? Give him sexy come-hither eyes and gaze at him, lick, spit, twist and twirl his cock in your with when you are in this gaze. Don’t go overboard and look creepy but pretend like you’re sucking a really good lollipop or watch some blow job porn and do what they do.

These 4 points are kept to giving the perfect blow job. Maybe there are other pointers I have overlooked but in my opinion and after my blow job poll, these are the things that matter the most. Watch the teeth, deep throat and look at him. Point number 3 is for you to make it better for everyone.

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If you find your sex life is in a rut, I have the best suggestion to make it more fun. take a sex break! I don;t mean to stop having sex, but i men to get away And put yourself in an entirely mew environment and let the passion flow. Being abstinent for a few days leading up to the vacation couldn’t hurt wither, it will build up the anticipation of your sex romp week or weekend and make it feel like the first time is coming again. So this is what you should do:

Book a trip to go away. Make it as long and elaborate as you can. If all you can do is a weekend at a hotel on your locate town, so be it. If you can go away for a week or a weekend at an all inclusive resort, that is even better. Of course in life you do what you can. Assuming you can get away and do an all inclusive for a week, this is what you should do. Try telling erotic stories to each other, it’s a great way to get aroused!

All inclusive resort somewhere in Mexico is perfect because you can drink your faces off. the booze might be a little watered down but with all the sugar rush you’ll be experiencing, you’ll be really hiper. With the booze in your system, you’ll be horny. This is pretty obvious that it will set the mood for active sex since you’ll have energy to burn!

Play some sex game. pretend that you don’t know each other and you’re eyeing each other from across the pool. Use pick up lines, get the butterflies like it’s the first time and flirt with each other. wait for him to invite you back to his room. Pretend you don’t know each other and it’s your first time. Do it in the shower. Make it really kinky.

Another thing to try is to bring sex toys or handcuffs. use them on each other and move your sex everywhere – not just in the bed. have sex on the balcony, that’s always fun. Try to sneak a quickie in the bushes away from plain sight but still in public. It;s your chance to do sex positions and sex acts that you never would at home because of you get caught, no big deal because these people don’t know who you are anyway.

The simple setting is enough o make it hot and erotic, The hot sun, cool pool, mini bikinis, fancy drinks and the whole calming setting is perfect for love. People have vacation flings because paradise is so ideal for romance so even if you;re not the romantic type, I wouldn’t be surprised if you felt the little arrow if cupid gracing your weekend. You’ll be in the mood.

Have sex often and whoever you feel like it. be spontaneous and fun and you’ll feel better about your relationship and when you get back to home when it’s all over, you’ll have s swimming pool, full of memories forever and it might inspire you to be more kinky at home. If not, then you can take another vacation at your earliest opportunity and do it all over again!

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A problem for many couples is that the man usually reaches orgasm first , leaving a frustrated woman in the bed alone. For intimate couples who really car about each other, it’s important for them to share in the joy or orgasm together. they should both get the same pleasure otherwise it’s a lopsided relationship and lacking for one partner. the following are a few tips that you can take to try to orgasm at the same time.

1.) Use a vibrating bullet.
This is the first and best way for the women to reach orgasm during sex. All you need to do is hold the small bullet vibrator oiver your clitoris during sex and it will come naturally. The best sexual psoiton for this is dioggies tyle but there are some vibratinb buyllets that are so tiny that you can hold them on yourt clit during jmissionary position and they won’t get in the way. these tiny sex toys are available at any local sex shop, they all sell them, and they don;t cost much money.

2.) Use penis desensitizer.
This creamy or gel paste contains benzocaine which helps to numb your penis. This is a topical anesthetic that is very safe to use because it’s the same stuff that dentists use when they are numbing your mouth before a needle, so it;/s safe to use and safe to ingest. What you do is place a little on the penis about 10 minutes before intercourse and it will numb the penis. usually it’s placed on the head and near the tip.

3.) Use a vibrator after the man has ejaculated.
If the first 2 tips did not work, not all is lost, simply reach for a vibrator, preferable a rabbit vibrator which stimulates inside and out and this will help her get an orgasm. Even if the man came already, at least the woman has a chance to feel good too. A rabbit vibrator can also be found at any local sex shop and they can cost a mini fortune but it’s not necessary. Any small rabbit vibrator will do just fine but you want to make sure that it has 2 motors to vibrate inside and outside.

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The time has come when the days grow longer and the sun gets hotter. You know what else gets hotter? Passion between couples. Skirts get shorter and men get hornier! Praise the summer! Give your sexual technique a makeover and give yourself not juts a new haircut but a new way to enjoy sex. The following are 5 spring foreplay tips to allow you to be erotic like a porn star.


1.) Watch an adult film together.
It is such a turn on when you watch a porn flick together. It arouses you both but also releases some inhibitions. Porn stars are experts and they do some sexual positions that you might not have considered. It also allows you to be ultra sexy. Don’t worry about the lady with bigger boobs then yourself because in the back of the man’s head, he is worried about what you think about the male star’s bigger penis. Don’t get self conscious and if you think this may happen, then turn out the lights in the room and let the light of the naked bodies on the TV screen be the only light cast on your intimate setting.


2.) Go for a picnic in the forest.
Pack a big soft blanket, chocolate dipped strawberries and champagne (but only if you’re not driving) and take a hike into the woods to find a private clearing. You can feed the fruit to your lover. Lick champagne off of their belly button. get intimate, roll around in the blanker. Roll up the blanket with yourselves in between. Enjoy foreplay and sex when you are stuck together, oh so intimate! If you are extra kinky, you can have sex standing up wrapped around a tree.. creativity abounds! Please don’t forget the mosquito repellant! There is nothing like an ass full of mosquito bites to be the tell tale sign of where you were yesterday!


3.) Use a finger vibrator.
This article is about foreplay tips, not sex tips and the best foreplay tip is to useĀ finger vibrator. This can enable the woman to have an orgasms even before sex starts. More often then not, this is not possible, or she fakes it. Unless he’s berry good at cunnilingus. The finger vibrator will prevent any faked orgasms, they are all for real. It’s totally self explanatory that you press it against her clitoris, but you can also use it to massage and tickle. Its very fun, try it for yourself!


4.) Get frisky underwater.
It’s so erotic to finger each other under water. You can’t see what’s coming to you, all you can see is the lusty look in your lover’s eyes. It’s so erotic not knowing. I compare foreplay underwater to being blindfolded. There is so much anticipation because you’re whole body is reachable, very inch can be explored blindly so each touch is exciting and anticipated. Also, the licenses of the water if very erotic when the fingers glide over wherever you touch – or are touched!


5.) Go for a roll in the hay.
This might call for a blanket again because the hay is prickly, but if you don;t have a sex blanket, you can still enjoy the erotic encounter in a barn. It’s so sexy because it’s very old fashioned way to make love – or make foreplay. You can really live up to the saying a roll in the hay! The smell of the barn, the dirt it’s so earthy. It’s dirty and bad and you can really enjoy the naughty side of sex. You get back to each and get in touch with nature. At home you may worry about being dirty or doing something gross, but in the barn, all bets are off and you can experiment some bad things because your surroundings reflect the mood. It’s a great experience.

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