jake and viennaDid I get your attention?

I bet I did! Here is my comments on the bachelor couple and why they are so hot and perfect. First of all controversial sex is great. To be with a lover that no one thinks is good is something wee all do at one point of time or another,. Do you remember when you snuck out of your house when you were younger? You went for the bad boy and kissed him behind the gym at school? Vienna is jake’s bad girl.

I think they are such a good couple and we can learn allot from them. the main lesson they teach is that it;’s so important to have fun and be playful. Tenley says that she’s playful, maybe she is when she plays with a puppy but that’s the extent of it. Vienna is playful in a sex way, in a rough and tumble way. It’s fun to rumble with your lover in bed, get dirty, bring in some edible body paint.

I bet they get wild and a little nasty when they get together and I’m so sure that they’ll love to use the glow in the dark body paint kit. It’s the naughtiest adult novelty I’ve ever seen and I bet that they would use it if I sent it to them!
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Their playful and nastiness was confirmed the episode when they were rolling in the mud. I imaged them doing very x rated things when the camera’s weren’t rolling. The producers have to keep it very G rated though because it’s a show on prime time and you can’t get too risque at that time of the day. Maybe Jake and Vienna should have their own reality show last night on showcase and then you can see what they are really like. They are sure to be sex teachers for everyone else. I admire them and hope they enjoy the fame and the sex while it lasts!

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Valentine's day

Hallmark holiday or a real holiday? The choice is up to you but the origins of valentine’s Day are clear and true. Take a look at the article about the origins of Valentine’s Day and judge for yourself. What I found amusing is that just like in the old days, the real old days there were sacrifices made. I’m glad that people don’t feel the need to kill animals anymore for the gods - in the hemisphere anyway!

But back to the current century, Valentine’s day is a very important day. It’s very sad that men cry about it being a Hallmark holiday because it’s only 1 day per year. So you have to buy your woman chocolates, a card and some flowers one day per year - and you complain about that? Yeesh, When you think of it that way, men are horrible! they should be happy to show love at least 1 day per year!

It;s the simple gestures that mean the most. The little kiss in the morning, the rose left on the kitchen counter for me to see when I come downstairs in the morning. Simple things mean allot because that means that you thought of something yourself. Even if chocolates are typical, he took the time to think of it and do something do you so it’s all about the love.

Today (Sunday to be precise) is the day when the most people will be proposed to. It’s very easy for men to take a chance on love on this day because women are love struck so the chances of her saying yes to a proposal today are much higher then a normal day. Also it makes a really sweet story to tell your friends. It’s a romance story written in time and remembered forever.

It’s good day to get married to because the man will never forget the wedding anniversary! The only problem with Valentine’s day weddings is that venues and caterers even photographers charge extra for a holiday fee. It’s a really desired day so it will cost you more - allot more so if you have the cash, be prepared to shell out a pretty penny for a Valentine Day wedding.

I like to get away for a while, go to a romantic Inn and have a sexy and intimate weekend together. Drive away from your city and relax yourself, it should only cost a coup,e of hundred bucks but the peace and quiet is priceless.

Regardless of how you like to celebrate, it’s the day for love so enjoy it and make the most of our this one special day. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Here’s some blow job tips for women. men love oral sex, it’s to no surprise. The feel of wet sucking is compared to the pleasure of sexual intercourse. The feel is quite similar. In fact, after taking a poll of my many male friends, I have reached the result that many men prefer the feel of oral sex. Why is that better then sex? The following are some tips on how to get your man to think that oral sex is better then sex.

I have to backtrack here a second because is you’re the type of gal that hates giving blow jobs, then you’ll want to follow tips on how to give a worse blow job so that your man will hate them and want to have sex only. Well that’s not very fair is it? A relationship is about compromise, even a bed buddy only relationship is about compromise so if it’s a lopsided affair, then he’ll stray, or at least find another bed buddy. Even if you hate giving oral sex, you’ll have to suck it up and do it eventually sometimes (no pun intended!)

He needs his pleasure, it’s not fair for you to get pleasure but for him to receive nothing. That’s why men cheat. When you hear men say “I do things with my mistress that my wife would never do” Do you know who’s fault that is? It’s the women’s fault. It’s up to them to give their man pleasure and he’ll never have to stray. Think about it this way, if he gives you lots of pleasure, you won’t stray, right? Well again I say that a relationship is a two way street. Now with that said, here is my blow job tips, and after reading the above statement you’ll want o heed this advice:

1.) Go deep
Deep throating is the best thrill of blow jobs. This is a very important tip. This is the reason that men love blow jobs. At the back of the throat, it gets really tight, really fast and it’s very warm, very wet and very soft. All the ingredients men need in the perfect pleasure for their penis. It has it add. Shove his member back there and keep it there as long as you can. The gag reflex will no doubt come into effect, but then all you need to do is heed the second tip and purchase some:

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This is a safe to use numbing spray is exactly what you need to make it more comfortable when you deep throat him. It’s completely safe to use. The main ingredient is benzocaine which is the same thing that’s in Ora-gel and the same thing that dentists use to swab your gum line before putting the needle in for freezing. That’s all the convincing you need. It’s super safe and super effective. You spray it on the very back of your throat and then let it sit for a minute or so before giving oral sex. There are a few things you need to do to make it effective. Don’t let your spit build you back there or it will wash away. Also don’t swallow and don’t give oral sex right away or you will numb his penis and there goes all the pleasure!

3.) Wrap your teeth with your lips.
This is not the most attractive scene but when you wrap your teeth with your lips, it prevents any discomfort and you teeth are the biggest factor is discomfort in giving blow jobs. This gives a stronger feel sort if stroking but without any pain. You’ll look like a denture-less granny so if I may advise that you do this only when you are looking down because it’s not a pretty sight. This brings me to my next point:

4.) Look up at him
It’s what porn stars do so it’s a given that you want to so this too. It gives him a feeling of superiority when you look up at him with lust as you suck on his penis. It makes him feel tall stroking and like a man and well, what man doesn’t love that? Give him sexy come-hither eyes and gaze at him, lick, spit, twist and twirl his cock in your with when you are in this gaze. Don’t go overboard and look creepy but pretend like you’re sucking a really good lollipop or watch some blow job porn and do what they do.

These 4 points are kept to giving the perfect blow job. Maybe there are other pointers I have overlooked but in my opinion and after my blow job poll, these are the things that matter the most. Watch the teeth, deep throat and look at him. Point number 3 is for you to make it better for everyone.

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I read some blogs from some fellow sex bloggers and I’m such an inexperienced small fish. I have some readers but not nearly the huge amount that some of the more popular bloggers get. I tried to so some research on how’s to grow but I’m so incompetent with instructions, I don’t even know how to work Twitter! It’s a big mash of symbols and confusion.

Is it slight mental retardation? It very well could be. the I think to myself that I’m very smart becuase I’m so literate, I can write your socks off but for the life of me I can’t figure out how to sign up for elust, pleasurists or Twitter! If you feel like giving me some advice you can email me and I will be eternally grateful and I will link to your blog too. Thanks to all the big fish from this small fish!

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dirty-mindKit Kurious is a vivacious girl with a sexually charged appetite and a desire to share the love. As an author, a fashionista, a sex educator and a philosopher (check out her Fast, Frantic and Intense Guide To Sex), Kit has arrived on the online erotic scene with a bang through her site, www.girlwithadirtymind.com  

Her blog is a titillating tsunami of erotic entertainment, information, tips and tricks and instructionals, running the full gamut of sexual subjects and turn ons. Need an example? When I visited www.girlwithadirtymind.com her most recent blog entries were discussing the joys of fetishes, how to experience stronger orgasms, the ins and outs of masturbation, tips on becoming a better lover and how to build a better body through the use of specific sexual positions. How’s that for a range of subjects? And that’s barely the tip of Kit’s iceberg, this girl’s dirty mind is turbo charged and ensures that there is always something new and stimulating to enjoy at her site. 

Kit’s passionate pen (or kinky keyboard) extends beyond erotic blogging however; she has three volumes of Explicit Erotica available as eBooks and paperbacks for sale available on Amazon and other retail outlets. That’s a lot of sexy reading from someone who knows how to turn up the heat. Check out her site, www.girlwithadirtymind.com for exclusive merchandise, horny eBooks and paperbacks, and advice on how to heat up your sex life.

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sexbeachMy New Years resolution is to have more sex.
How can you have more sex? There are a few ways, as a lady it’s quite simple but you can’t just take in the first dog that lands on your doorstep. Try to at least set the bar a little higher. I want a George Clooney or Johnny Depp look alike. how an earth are you supposed to get that?

It seems that all beautiful men are either gay or already taken and happy. Or they are superstars and wouldn’t give a thought at a simple regular person like me. I guess then having New Years resolution of more sex is quite difficult. What am I supposed to do?

I won’t lower my standards or settle for anything less then the greatest and hottest men. I will try to find the best babes, maybe I’ll supply for the bachelor or the next season of Survivor. There always seems to be really hot guys on there.

My strategy will be to get the guy, screw the game, I want to get laid! I’m sure they’d allow me on the show since I have a very unique game strategy and all the USA would love to see a girl trying to get it on with the guys,e especially in a hot sandy location like Samoa.

A regular girl like me would be a hot babe on a hot sandy beach, almost nude in a hot little bikini, all the Americas would love to watch me get it on with a girl. It’s about sex and strategy now. Maybe my New Year’s resolutions should be to apply for survivor. Indirectly I can get more sex with a hot guy. I’ll keep you posted on that!

I could also go to Vegas and hang with the beautiful people. That would probably work too but I don’t want to catch a VD. that;s tricky waters to tread. The regular bar scene is full of grimy guys but I’ll admit that some of them are quite attractive, it just seems that a drunken sex night is passe. I’m getting up there in the years and the quality of guy from the bar doesn’t seem to be movie quality.

It’s like they don’t care about pleasing you, they just want to get their sick wet. It’s not the same kind of sex that a girl really likes. maybe a vacation fling will do it, like a hot club guy that works at the all inclusive resort, that’s always a good bet. Perhaps I’ll jet off on a vacation and then return to apply for survivor!

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triple-probeI’ve been lacking on my sex toy review posts lately. Mainly because I’ve slowed on my sex toy purchases but I found this hot new thang at a local shop and I juts had to have it! It looks kinda like one of those older sex toys but the material is not sticky jelly at all, it’s smooth jelly like although the packaging says TPR, it more stiff then silicone. Whatever it is, it’s a good build.

The 3 ends are noticeable different from each other and I tried all of them in different orifices and I must say that it’s very erotic. The thicker end is smooth with a little mushroom tip It’s shorter so when you insert it all the way, the curve caresses your clit. or you can flip it the other way and enjoy some double penetration. The smaller end is sturdy enough to be able to be inserted, it won’t flop away from you easily. You can grasp the middle, where the 3 pieces meet, it is easy to hold on to.

It could be a little wider but I won’t complain much because it gives more of a seductive feel, like teasing since it doesn’t fill me up all the way so when I crave a bigger filling feel, I can move up to another toy. And that’s just what we did. My man and I really enjoyed this one for foreplay.

The anal beaded end is really fun, I like to obvious texture of the bumpy surface. If you’re extra kinky like me, you’ll appreciate the feel. It was like 30 dollars which is a little steep for a sex toy that dies not even vibrate but it’s great for some variety.

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If you find your sex life is in a rut, I have the best suggestion to make it more fun. take a sex break! I don;t mean to stop having sex, but i men to get away And put yourself in an entirely mew environment and let the passion flow. Being abstinent for a few days leading up to the vacation couldn’t hurt wither, it will build up the anticipation of your sex romp week or weekend and make it feel like the first time is coming again. So this is what you should do:

Book a trip to go away. Make it as long and elaborate as you can. If all you can do is a weekend at a hotel on your locate town, so be it. If you can go away for a week or a weekend at an all inclusive resort, that is even better. Of course in life you do what you can. Assuming you can get away and do an all inclusive for a week, this is what you should do. Try telling erotic stories to each other, it’s a great way to get aroused!

All inclusive resort somewhere in Mexico is perfect because you can drink your faces off. the booze might be a little watered down but with all the sugar rush you’ll be experiencing, you’ll be really hiper. With the booze in your system, you’ll be horny. This is pretty obvious that it will set the mood for active sex since you’ll have energy to burn!

Play some sex game. pretend that you don’t know each other and you’re eyeing each other from across the pool. Use pick up lines, get the butterflies like it’s the first time and flirt with each other. wait for him to invite you back to his room. Pretend you don’t know each other and it’s your first time. Do it in the shower. Make it really kinky.

Another thing to try is to bring sex toys or handcuffs. use them on each other and move your sex everywhere - not just in the bed. have sex on the balcony, that’s always fun. Try to sneak a quickie in the bushes away from plain sight but still in public. It;s your chance to do sex positions and sex acts that you never would at home because of you get caught, no big deal because these people don’t know who you are anyway.

The simple setting is enough o make it hot and erotic, The hot sun, cool pool, mini bikinis, fancy drinks and the whole calming setting is perfect for love. People have vacation flings because paradise is so ideal for romance so even if you;re not the romantic type, I wouldn’t be surprised if you felt the little arrow if cupid gracing your weekend. You’ll be in the mood.

Have sex often and whoever you feel like it. be spontaneous and fun and you’ll feel better about your relationship and when you get back to home when it’s all over, you’ll have s swimming pool, full of memories forever and it might inspire you to be more kinky at home. If not, then you can take another vacation at your earliest opportunity and do it all over again!

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Pink is a girlie color. It represents youngness, sex, cuteness, and innocence. It’s the color that parents paint their daughter’s rooms. It carries over through life and grows and the girl grows but it keeps a youthful attribute. Pink is the color of sex toys. A pink vibrator looks nicer then any other color, it looks less dirty and raunchy.

A pink corset is the perfect blend of naughty and nice. Pink is the color of pussy lips, men see this as feminine and inviting. Fresh and ready to go. I think baboons have pink and red bottoms and when they are ready to mate, the color gets brighter. Don’t take my work for that but I’m pretty sure that’s how it goes in the animal kingdom.

When a lady dons pink attire, she feels more coy and cute, This allows her to act the part. Think of it ladies, don’t you feel cuter and more girlie in pink? When you are cute and girly, you can get your way. Men are much more likely to sway to your demands when you are cute and pink then when you are blue.

Blue is not sexy, it’s a boy color. It means that you are more rough and tumble many men do like this but in the deep biological sense, girls are supposed to be delicate. Men are rough, not he women, When you wear pink, you have power and control.

Think of it this way. Wear a blur shirt and act really cute and beg for an ice cream. He will probably agree if you are cute but if you’re in something pink and pretty, he’ll not only agree, but do it with an eager smile, he wants to make you happy. Probably thinking about what you will do to make him happy later, but ladies, that’s why it’s so great to be a lady!

It’s a great way to exert your female dominance and get what you want. So ladies, get the pink on!

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A problem for many couples is that the man usually reaches orgasm first , leaving a frustrated woman in the bed alone. For intimate couples who really car about each other, it’s important for them to share in the joy or orgasm together. they should both get the same pleasure otherwise it’s a lopsided relationship and lacking for one partner. the following are a few tips that you can take to try to orgasm at the same time.

1.) Use a vibrating bullet.
This is the first and best way for the women to reach orgasm during sex. All you need to do is hold the small bullet vibrator oiver your clitoris during sex and it will come naturally. The best sexual psoiton for this is dioggies tyle but there are some vibratinb buyllets that are so tiny that you can hold them on yourt clit during jmissionary position and they won’t get in the way. these tiny sex toys are available at any local sex shop, they all sell them, and they don;t cost much money.

2.) Use penis desensitizer.
This creamy or gel paste contains benzocaine which helps to numb your penis. This is a topical anesthetic that is very safe to use because it’s the same stuff that dentists use when they are numbing your mouth before a needle, so it;/s safe to use and safe to ingest. What you do is place a little on the penis about 10 minutes before intercourse and it will numb the penis. usually it’s placed on the head and near the tip.

3.) Use a vibrator after the man has ejaculated.
If the first 2 tips did not work, not all is lost, simply reach for a vibrator, preferable a rabbit vibrator which stimulates inside and out and this will help her get an orgasm. Even if the man came already, at least the woman has a chance to feel good too. A rabbit vibrator can also be found at any local sex shop and they can cost a mini fortune but it’s not necessary. Any small rabbit vibrator will do just fine but you want to make sure that it has 2 motors to vibrate inside and outside.

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